Marriage kid separation = Divorce. Unmarried kid separation = SAPCR (Suit Affecting Parent-Child Relationship). What’s actually at issue in a SAPCR? If you're not married, family court isn’t where you untangle your finances. When you’re not married but share a child, the legal process is called a Suit Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship (SAPCR). That means the focus is on your child for custody, visitation, and support & health insurance. Even if you lived together or shared expenses, things