Twenty years patient," Lopez wrote in the newsletter, along with photos and videos from their midnight affair at the Little White Wedding ... opted for a simple white gold band.

If a woman has multiple wedding bands—say, she received a simple gold band during the ceremony ... as some married women choose to do? You should still put the wedding band on the fourth finger ...

It appears J Lo swapped her stunning green engagement ring from Ben Affleck for a simple wedding band. "So with the best witnesses you could ever imagine, a dress from an old movie and a jacket ...