Two days after Perry and Trudeau were originally seen out to dinner in the Canadian city, Trudeau was in the audience at Perry’s Lifetimes tour show in Montreal. Per People, the pair sparked an “instant connection,” and a source said back in August, “They are interested in each other, but it will take a while to see where this goes.”

As reports linking Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau and pop star Katy Perry are confirmed, one figure quietly standing apart from the frenzy is his ex-wife, Sophie Grégoire Trudeau — and she seems more grounded than ever.